Boundaries and Consent


At Kittie's & Bean's, we're on a mission to empower submissive identifying folx to control the scene.  When you give consent, listen to it.  Is it given with excitement?  Is it something you really want to do?  Because if you're hesitant, or only saying yes because you're tired of being asked, then it's not really consent, is it?  It's conceding to the will of others.


So many subs that we've met are self-identified people pleasers, ourselves included.  So this is our reminder, to ourselves and to you.  It's all about The Enthusiastic Yes!  Anything else should make everyone involved pause and take a step back to discuss it more.


This is about your comfort and happiness and mental and physical well-being.  You're in control.

Our Story


Welcome to Kittie's & Bean's Sweet & Spicy Shops!


We're just two women who met at a munch and became fast friends who like to make stuff and shop. 


Kittie (not her real name) is a sweet, silly, spastic kitten who is full of sunshine and rainbows in a gray world. 


Bean (not her real name) is a brat who desperately tries to keep Kittie from getting hurt while simultaneously spurring her on.  


Both just want to have fun and make people feel comfortable in their own skin (because wearing other people's skin is really itchy).


So this site, and the separate shops, are a reflection of who these two are as women, as Gen X, and as subs (the kind you eat 😏).


Here at Kittie & Bean's, we are always open to suggestions on what to offer, so please feel free to contact us to request a design or color or to tell us to fuck off, and we will do our best to accommodate you!


Come play with us!

About Kittie's & Bean's

Our Mission: